A guided spring closet cleanse to purge the outfits and items you’ve outgrown - or never wanted in the first place. Along with the roles and expectations that exist within them.

Remember consenting to all the patriarchy’s demands? Like your worth will be rooted in your usefulness and endless labor; safety will come from being polite and nonthreatening; that how you look will be more important than how you feel or what you want; that needs will be seen as weakness and self-reliance as sexy?

Yeah. Me neither.

If you find that - in spite of being a radiant, intelligent, dynamic human with a rebellious streak and a bold vision for how you want to show up in this world - you are still:

👉 procrastinating, pushing through and tackling a bunch of mundane chores that drain you when doing them with a buddy would be revitalizing and fun

👉 receiving a barrage of tasks and criticisms from your own brain every time you sit down to rest, take a bath, go for a walk, chat with a friend

👉 policing your physical body, desires, self-expression, and sexuality to avoid being messy, needy, too much, not enough and stay safe

👉 dreaming about the plans and purpose you’ll get to live someday after you satisfy society’s demands

This Spring is a great time to say NO to the tired roles and expectations, and YES to what lights you up.

“Break up with the patriarchy? Sounds daunting.” It is. But there is a you-shaped way out. Your closet.

Do you want to:

⚡ Feel run-into-your-biggest-crush-or-your-worst-enemy-and-not-give-a-f*ck comfortable in your skin? Yes!

⚡ Feel seen in all your unique goodness and complexity? That sounds nice!

⚡ Reclaim chores as communal acts, and self care as opportunities for radical connection and scheming a better world? That’s possible? Hell Yes.

⚡ Open your closet in the morning met by a wardrobe that cheers you on, loves you unconditionally, meets your needs… like your kindergarten teacher, therapist, and biggest fan all rolled into one? Definitely!

⚡ Wear clothes that feel good on your skin, hold your body the way you want to be held, touch you the way you want to be touched? Yessssssss!

⚡ Be accompanied throughout the day by partner in crime, bestie down for the last minute adventure energy and support? Yep!

⚡ In short, you want a closet that supports you to do the fucking thing? Yes. That.

You’ve tried purging your closet. It sounded easy, but when you actually got into it the doubt came flooding in.

“What if I need it?”

“I spent so much money on it - I have to use it a few more times.”

“What if I let it go and regret it?”

“If I alter it, it could work.”

“I’m being so self-indulgent just doing this. What a waste of time.”

“If I got rid of it that would hurt my mom’s / friend’s / great aunt twice removed whom I’ve never actually met’s feelings.” 

Clothes hold all those icky beliefs and sticky messages we have all internalized since childhood about who we are, our value, and our role in the world.

If every time you try and purge your closet, it turns into a gloves off brawl with any and every criticism and expectation you’ve ever heard, well, it makes total sense you would feel exhausted, worse about yourself - all while having actually gotten rid of very little. 

Deep change causes a lot of pressure. Because pressure is just what happens when longing is met with self-reliance and perfectionism.

Would you send a child into a room full of mean old grownups to get yelled at? Of course not. Just the same, you shouldn’t go it alone to purge your closet. 

You need someone who:

❤️‍🔥 sees and believes your inherent goodness.

❤️‍🔥 knows your role in this world is far beyond “Receptacle for other people’s insecurities, demands, and limiting expectations.”

❤️‍🔥 embodies beauty standards for women & femmes outside of patriarchy, racism, and capitalism.

❤️‍🔥 believes the world needs your unapologetic, fully expressed aliveness - and is invested in you becoming that version of yourself.

With Consensual Closets you get: 

• Space to listen to your inner knowing about what you like and what you don’t.

• Permission to be rude, selfish, indulgent, bold, sexy, silly, sad, inappropriate, mismatched, angry, fat, thin, loud, annoyed, ungrateful.

• A connection to the loving support you need - internal and external - to let go of the items, beliefs, and roles that do not serve your deepest aliveness. The result: you can say goodbye without guilt, overwhelm, decision fatigue or what ifs. 

• You get permission to say YES or NO. And permission to say “I don’t know. I need help.”

• For those unsure what they love: we deconstruct maybes, capture the whispers of preference, and build a working document of what you love and what you don’t so that you can begin to build your most expressive, most YOU wardrobe. 

And when you have a closet full of things you like, you are literally redirecting your time, energy and life force away from the energy suck of indecision, overwhelm and endless tasks, and into powering the forward motion of your curiosity, creativity and expression. 

More brain power and focus. “No” to holding on out of guilt, draining your bandwidth trying to find the time to get one more wear out of something you spent ‘too much’ money on. “No” to staring at a closet full of things you cannot get excited about.

More money. “No” to overbuying trying to piece together what you might like, what could work.

More time and energy. Less laundry, less stuffing and jamming, less searching, less deciding. You will literally have more time and energy to do… whatever your unique aliveness is compelled to do!

The details:

• 📍 In-home, your space

• ⏱ 2.5 hours

• 💸 $250

• 📦 I remove everything you are getting rid of

• 🎁 Special pricing and a discount on future whole-home services

Spots are limited.

Katherine Moore is your closet bestie.

Katherine is a life coach and professional declutterer — the rare kind of person who holds both the practical and the tender at once. Her belief: when your home supports you intuitively, you stop spending precious energy trying to manage it — and you get to put that energy back where it belongs.

“She is, genuinely, magic. Decluttering your closet with Katherine will change the way you dress. It will change the way you feel.”